5 days agoTry Being Giveful!Tony Akel was the Dean of the School of Business at Long Island University in the eighties. He recruited me to join the faculty there and I was chairman of the marketing department for many years. He became a good friend and mentor. We were at a formal party soon…Happiness3 min readHappiness3 min read
5 days agoYou are Addicted!I did not know her age, but she looked to be in her mid-fifties. She was weary and there were care worn lines in her face. It was hot despite the air-conditioning and her make-up was running. She had a huge pile of quarters in a casino bucket in front…Personal Growth3 min readPersonal Growth3 min read
5 days agoNothing is Forever!On a recent Monday morning meet Marshall Goldsmith raised an intriguing question. Why do people stop doing something when it has been proven to work? Two MG100 coaches had instituted practices that led their companies to unbelievable success. …Personal Growth2 min readPersonal Growth2 min read
5 days agoMore on ‘Is the Universe Benevolent’A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog inviting readers to think that they were living in a friendly universe. A universe that was aware of their existence and one that was well disposed toward them. A benevolent universe. I received many responses. Each detailed something that had happened to…Personal Growth3 min readPersonal Growth3 min read
Aug 28Lessons From a Snow Globe and Other InsightsHave you ever seen a snow globe? It generally has a picturesque scene with pretty houses and neat roads. Shake it and it grows hazy as if snow was falling. …Happiness3 min readHappiness3 min read
Aug 21Now I Understand!There is an ancient saying, attributed to Lao Tzu, that did not make much sense to me when I first heard it. I knew it had truth embedded in it, so I filed it away. I could not understand it, but I sensed that there was great value in it. …Happiness2 min readHappiness2 min read
Aug 15Wake Up!Are you bothered about the state of the world? Heat is unrelenting in many countries and soaring temperatures are making life a misery for those without air-conditioning. And those who do have air-conditioning are stuck in their houses and not particularly happy. There is economic turmoil, financial instability, and political…Resilience3 min readResilience3 min read
Aug 9Is the Universe Really Friendly?Einstein supposedly said that the most important question you could ever ask is “Is the universe friendly?” We all know persons who believe that the universe is set up to frustrate them and engineers this in the most ingenious ways. …Personal Growth4 min readPersonal Growth4 min read
Aug 9How to Build Great Relationships!Will Bachman took my course, Creativity and Personal Mastery, at Columbia Business School nearly two decades ago. He was a McKinsey consultant then and has since launched Umbrex.com, a site that helps you find a consultant for virtually any kind of project. …Personal Growth2 min readPersonal Growth2 min read
Jul 24Be Nobody!In my course, Creativity and Personal Mastery, I have an exercise called Becoming Nobody. “When I was growing up, I used to be somebody. We were all in somebody training in those days. You become somebody, and then you tell everybody who you are. You hand out business cards, and…Inner Peace3 min readInner Peace3 min read